Category Archives: The blame we place

Are you selfish to find happiness?

I never wanted to be a selfish person. I thought to be happy, it didn’t have to be about just making sure I was happy. Doing it for me, didn’t seem right, my happiness came from doing it for others … Continue reading

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Supporting a friend as they face the future.

I have a very dear friend who has been married for 20 years. They tried but were never able to have kids. I always thought they would’ve adopted but now I’m glad they did not because their marriage has been … Continue reading

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Who is the disciplinarian?

When my child is at daddy’s house, daddy is the disciplinarian. When my child is at mommy’s house and mommy is at home, I think mommy should be the disciplinarian. I disagree with ex-spouses’ new husbands doing any of the … Continue reading

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Is my ex to blame?

I find myself blaming my ex, for taking my child away from me. Shouldn’t we then be placing blame on ourselves or perhaps know one needs to be blamed for anything? I always maintain that I will never be okay … Continue reading

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I’ll take some of the blame but it’s mostly your fault

Mike has a story to come later…

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Is it possible, that exes can blame each other for our unhappiness!

My ex and I are pretty good co-parents. We agree on most things with our child. Very amicable when it comes to changing our schedules to accommodate the other. We are the 1% , probably the model for co-parenting. It’s … Continue reading

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